10 Things To Avoid If You Do Not Want To Ruin Your Marriage
Introduction
Introduction
Do you know what to do improve your marriage? In this article we shall have a look at what NOT to do if you want to have a sound marriage.
Marriage Is Your Most Important Relationship
Marriage is the most important relationship of your life. Nothing else comes even close to the importance of your relationship with your wife.
Why is this? Because life was designed to be built on the foundation of a stable family life, which in turn is built upon a good marital relationship.
If every marriage was a happy, fulfilling, stable relationship there would be much less problems in the world. I know this sounds like a sweeping statement, but it has been proven over and over again that destructive behavior often stems from either having a bad marriage or having grown up in a house where there was one.
How To Avoid Ruining Your Marriage
If you do the things mentioned warned against below, you will be guaranteed to ruin your marriage, or at least destroy any relationship that you might have had with your wife. Therefore you have to pay close attention to them if you want to maintain a sound relationship with your wife (or if you want to improve your relationship).
First Of Two Articles
In order to keep the article a manageable length, I have split the ten things up into two different articles. This is the first of the two articles, and covers the first five things to avoid.
Rule 1: Never Be Unfaithful To Your Wife
This is a biggie. Marriage is sacred whether you are religious or not. Being unfaithful to your wife not only proves to her that you disrespect her, but also that you are untrustworthy. Simply never even think about doing it, much less actually doing it. The excitement of an illicit affair is simply not worth the pain it brings.
Rule 2: Never Lie To Your Wife
Being truthful, and speaking only the truth, is the only way to ensure that you are never "caught out." If you lie to your wife you will be caught out at some stage, and then she will wonder how many other lies you have told her, and whether you can be trusted at all. It might be painful to tell the truth, but it is always less painful than being caught out lying.
Rule 3: Never Listen Half-heartedly When She Talks
Not listening when someone speaks is rude and shows disrespect for the person. If you do this your wife will grow to resent talking to you, and that is not a good position to get into in your relationship. Concentrate on what she says, and respond intelligently.
Rule 4: Don't Neglect To Assist With Household Tasks
This is an area where many men are guilty. If you do not assist your wife with the household tasks you communicate to her that she is only your slave. On its own it can already destroy any feelings that your wife has for you, and together with the other things we mention it just makes things worse. Help her with household tasks and not only every now and then either. No, make it a habit to help her, and watch how her respect for you grows.
Rule 5: Do Not Point Out Her Shortcomings
We all have shortcomings because nobody is perfect. I bet you don't like it when someone points out your shortcomings to you, do you? No? Then do you think your wife enjoys it? Of course she doesn't. And she likes it even less when the person closest to her her husband is the one bringing it up. Only someone with a caveman attitude could argue that she "just has to take it" because she is inferior in any case. She is not inferior God has made her extra special, in fact.
Summary
The husband who does the things warned against in this article shows his lack of love and respect for his wife by doing them. By avoiding them, you will be communicating to your wife that she is in fact the most important person in your life.
If You Are Serious About The Relationship With Your Wife. . .
10 Things To Avoid If You Do Not Want To Ruin Your Marriage
By: Schalk Lubbe
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