10 steps couple should take befor moving in together
10 steps couple should take befor moving in together
Agree on who will pay for what . time has change and both parties are expected to contribute towards the upkeep of the home
agree if they are both on the same page when it comes to marriage (in general and with each other) very important , save both parties a lot of heartheach, bitter feelings and emotional upheavals if these is sorted.
come up with more than one reason to move in together other than heady passion , lust and for the convenience . after all you are suppose to be lovers and soul mate and not room mate.
consider the reaction of family , friends and associate at large. No matter how liberal we have become you must take into consideration the fallout such a move could have a family member friends and associate. If pressure is brought to bear on either of you to jettison the idea can you withstand the outslaught and damn the consequence or will one of you bow to pressure for the sake of family and friends . those are very important and will determine how much sacrifice and risk you are willing to make for each other.
meet each other people , including close family members. If you will finally marry each other. These people you will be interacting with all through your marriage so it is important for you to meet and, decide if you deal with them.
know each other financial situation. Finance play a huge role in relationship so its very importance to discuss this and find out each others financial position and how it affect the relationship .