3 Reasons Why Your Ex Girlfriend Is Playing Hard To Get With You

Under normal conditions, it can be hard for a guy to deal with a woman playing hard to get with him

, but when that woman happens to be an ex girlfriend - it's going to probably be at least twice as difficult. If you want to get a handle on what you need to do to deal with an ex girlfriend playing hard to get with you, pay close attention. There can be lots of reasons why she might be doing this and depending on the circumstances, the way that you respond to her playing hard to get is going to change up a bit.

Here are 3 of the most common reasons why your ex girlfriend would play hard to get with you:

1) She can't do a clean break up even though she wants to.

Sometimes you will run into a situation with an ex girlfriend where she really doesn't want to date you anymore, but she has a hard time with a totally clean break up and that means that she might come across like she is playing hard to get. If this is what is happening right now for you, don't let yourself get fooled into thinking that there is some hope that you can win her back. If the main reason why she is playing hard to get comes down to the fact that she just can't do a clean break up, then you are probably not going to have much of a chance of winning her back, though it may seem that way at times.

2) She does want to get back together with you but she is waiting for you to make the move.

Another common reason why an ex girlfriend will come across as playing hard to get is because she does want to get back with you, but she is waiting for you to be the one to make that first move. Some women just won't make that first move no matter how much that they want to and if that is the case with you and your ex girlfriend, you are going to have to be the one that makes the move. Just be careful to make sure that this is the real reason behind her playing hard to get if you don't want to get rejected by her.

3) She really isn't playing hard to get and it is all in your mind.

I find that a lot of the time, when a guy tells me about how is ex girlfriend is playing hard to get and then he describes how she is doing it, that it more or less seems like all of this is happening in his own mind. Usually it is a classic case of the guy seeing what he wants to see and that doesn't mean that she is really playing any games with him or that she wants him back in any way. You have to be careful, because if your desire to get back with her is very strong, it can be easy to allow yourself to see what it is that you want to see even if it really isn't what's really going on.

by: Chris Tyler

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