4 Habits that Make Your Woman "Nicer" To You
4 Habits that Make Your Woman "Nicer" To You
By Otto Collins
"She can be such a sniping nag!" Jason complained to his buddy over drinks after work one night. He didn't mean to be so harsh and negative about his own wife, .but that's how he feels today.
To be honest, it's how he feels much of the time.
For close to an hour, Jason and his friend commiserated about how difficult their wives are to be around. Sure, they each love their woman, but they'd like things to be more pleasant and enjoyable at home.
Jason tells his friend that he just wishes he knew what to do to make his wife be nicer to him.
It's an ugly fact that many man don't want to admit-- even though it drives them crazy! There are times when their woman simply gets on their nerves.
Perhaps she criticizes your clothing choices or the way that you handle a situation. Maybe she puts you down or belittles what you do for a living. She might nag at you to get projects finished.
It all adds up to one unpleasant relationship experience!
There's comes a point when you decide that you're tired of living like this, not liking your woman all that much. If you know that you love her and want to stay in this relationship, it only makes sense for you to do whatever you can to improve things.
Of course, there are behavior changes that your partner could (and possibly will) be making. This is something that you two can talk about using language that won't put either of you on the defensive.
If you need to set boundaries about how you want to be treated, do so. If you feel like you are being abused, it's most definitely time to make some decisions that will get you out of an unhealthy situation. Seek assistance from a professional counselor or coach for individual guidance.
But, whether or not you want to admit it, there are also changes that you can make to your own behavior. You might not even realize what you are habitually doing that is contributing to this unwanted dynamic between you and your woman.
To put it simply, if you want your woman to be nicer to you, start out by being nicer to her. Here are 4 habits that can help you do that...
#1: Be kind.
It is only common sense to be kind to your woman, but unfortunately, too many men do not regularly do this. Too many men fall into the habit of treating strangers with more kindness than they do their own partner.
If you have a tendency to tease or poke "fun" at your woman, pay attention to how she reacts. She might have the sense of humor to take it all in stride and tease you right back or she might bristle and pull away from you.
The bottom line here is that you are going to damage the connection with your woman any time you make a joke that is at her expense. Find ways to laugh with her, not at her.
#2: Be respectful.
Another habit that can bring out the worst in your partner is disrespect. Some men don't even realize that they are being disrespectful when they are.
This can take the form of jokes made at your woman's expense. It might also happen when you break agreements that you have made with your partner.
No matter how "small" the promise, follow through. This shows her that you respect her enough to honor your agreements.
#3: Be thoughtful.
If your partner feels insignificant to you, she is probably going to treat you in much the same way. Be thoughtful of her.
If she's been working hard on a big project at the office, offer to take her out for dinner or you cook dinner and also do the dishes so that she can relax.
Notice what's happening in your woman's personal life and be a source of support for her. You can receive more support from her if you are clear about the specific ways you want to be supported.
You two might have a conversation in which you each share the unique ways you like to be supported and loved.
#4: Go the extra distance.
There's nothing that softens tension in a relationship like one person stepping up and going the extra distance.
Going the extra distance might mean that you take the time to sort through your resistance to one of her ideas and stretch yourself to meet her where she is.
Going the extra distance might involve you acknowledging that she has a point when she says you don't always follow through with your promises. Then, begin to change your ways.
Going the extra distance might include you suggesting to your woman that the two of you take a course or meet with a coach so that you can learn strategies that will improve your relationship.
Going the extra distance in your love relationship or marriage means that you step outside your comfort zone and start to create the kind of relationship you truly want instead of continuing to merely tolerate one you don't want.
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