More and more people have joined online dating sites because they work
, or at least they can work. In general, women are more terrified of meeting a man that they have only been chatting with online. For one thing they need to think of their safety so they have taken caution to the extreme in some cases. Who hasn't read the occasional horror story of some of the scary things that have happened to some people.
So what exactly are nice guys suppose to do to ease a woman's mind that they aren't Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde? What the heck are the 4 secrets of a man's success to online dating?
1. Patience
Patience is definitely the key. You don't want to pressure her into giving you any personal information that she isn't comfortable in sharing. Do not ask her where she lives or for her phone number unless she is willing to give you that information voluntarily. Keep the conversations light and fun until she is ready to share more. Never try to push her into meeting you in person. This only makes you look desperate.
2. Honesty
Always be honest about your physical appearance and your job. We all know that a good solid relationship will never last when it's based on lies and deceit. The truth always comes out eventually and then you are just back to square one.
3. Pictures
Post current and up to date pictures of yourself. You can post pictures of yourself doing any type of activity and always be sure to put in some full body shots as well. If you plan on dating some of these women, a head shot will not be enough for a first impression. Remember, a picture is worth a thousand words.
4. Public Place
Once a decision has been reached that you would like to meet in person, be sure to make it a very public place, during daylight hours, and be sure to let her know that she is more than welcome to bring a friend with her if that would make her much more comfortable. Remember, you have nothing to hide. You have been honest in your conversations and with sharing your photos so the only thing left is to make her feel safe when it's time to meet in person.
Hope these 4 secrets of a man's success to online dating have been helpful.