Cheating men are not only cheating on their wives they are also cheating themselves of what could be an amazing marriage over the course of a lifetime
. They are placing themselves and their marriages at risk for the sake of some fleeting and oh so temporary pleasure. It's amazing to most people that men would risk so much and yet the numbers show that many men do this each and every day. Here are just four of the ways that men who cheat on their wives are really cheating themselves.
1)They enjoy the passing pleasure of being with other woman instead of being with their wives. You don't have to settle yourself with the momentary pleasure that this other woman could give. Instead, spend time with your wife and talk about things that will be healthy for your relationship. Plan about the future of your marriage and your kids. Talk about things that could strengthen your marriage and could make both of you a happy couple.
2)You are risking much by cheating. Cheating is not only a risk to the health of your marriage and your happiness at home. There is a very real physical risk to you and your wife that comes about as the result of your cheating. We live in a world that is filled with sexually transmitted diseases. The likelihood of you bringing one back to your home, despite certain precautions, are high enough that they should be a deterrent for the average man.
3)Your standing in the community may be adversely affected if the word of your cheating gets out. This is more of a concern for those who live, work, and do business in smaller and more conservative communities but it is a major concern to consider. When you cheat, word may get out and it can affect your business. Women tend to stick together on this issue more than any other. You do not want a boycott of married women in your town if you own a business or depend on these women in any way for sales or income.
4)You're jeopardizing your family. Think about the future of your kids. For sure, you don't want them to grow up in a broken home. And most especially, you don't want to be a weekend father as well. And worst, it's a big ouch in your ego seeing somebody or other man raising your kids instead of you. Isn't this deceiving your self?
