It's funny how important it is to be appreciated and loved by others
. If people don't like you at all you are frustrated and if they like you a lot it boosts your self-esteem to an extreme, dangerous level. Balance is not the answer in this case. You should do anything in order for people to like you as much as possible. Here are 4 tips to help you do just that!
1. Always pay attention to your oral hygiene. Not because you don't want to have a bad breath (which is important as well), but because you want to have a bright smile. Try to smile to people but do it from your heart. If you smile to them you will likely get a smile back which helps build an instant relationship. Also, try to be funny. It will help you stand in any conversation. A great way to make others like you.
2. Ask your self. Why should others like you? Maybe because you are interested in them and this is another great way to achieve your goal. Try to become genuinely interested in other people. Ask if they want someone to talk to. Ask them if they would tell you their problems and in return you will give them your precious advice. Be a good listenet and encourage others to talk about themselves.
3. You must do this sincerely, if you can. First make the other person feel important. Use the right words the right body language. Try to express your sincere feelings of interest for that person. Then start talking in terms of the other man's interest. Remember also, that a person's Name is to him/her the sweetest and most important sound.
4. Here's the last but not least tip. Give other people love. Spread your love knowing that it will come back to you multiplied. If you like others so much in order to give them your love then there's no doubt that the Universal Law of Giving will work for you in terms of other people loving you as well. Think about it. You give love in an a way you know is best for other people and this love comes back to you because the other person will start to like you. This love might be a precious advice, some money, your time or anything else you can imagine that would help the other person.