5 Easy Steps to Get Your Ex Wife Back After a Break Up

5 Easy Steps to Get Your Ex Wife Back After a Break Up

There is no shortage of marriage advice available, the problem is that a lot of it is just plain wrong and some of it can even be dangerous. If you really want to know how to get your ex wife back after a break up, keep reading...

While I'm not saying that I know everything or that I'm an expert I do know that I've spent a lot of time researching the best techniques to reconcile with an ex. Throughout all my research I've found 5 basic steps that you can take that will not only help you get your ex wife back after a break up but will help you become a better person so that this, or any, relationship that you have can be a healthy one.

For starters, let me define what I'm talking about when I talk about an unhealthy marriage. Any marriage where someone is being abused is unhealthy. It doesn't matter if the abuse is of the physical, emotional, sexual, or verbal variety... it's all abusive. That means the man who is constantly ridiculing his wife and making fun of her for being too fat, not a good cook, etc. is abusive.

A marriage where there is an uneven distribution of power and one partner is only in the marriage because they don't have anywhere else to go (or at least they don't think they have another place to go) is unhealthy. These are the situations you should stay away from.

Here are the steps to take to have a healthy, loving marriage:

1. Figure out what your flaws are and work to fix them. This is tough, it's not easy to face up to your own character flaws and it's much easier to see the flaws that your partner had than to see yours. If you want to have healthy relationships, whether it's with your ex or someone new, you have to face up to your own issues. Your marriage will only be as good as the people in it. If you have some major flaws, your marriage will inevitably have some major flaws. Take the time to become a better person and that will help you out in every area of your life.

2. Don't be afraid to see your ex's flaws too. Another common problem is we tend to put the people we love up on a pedestal and conveniently refuse to see their less than desirable character traits. While you can't use their flaws as a way to avoid facing your own, it's important that you clearly see what both of you are really like and make the necessary changes if you want to have a good marriage.

3. Give your ex plenty of space while you are making your changes. Once you've got to the point where you've made progress, probably a few months, talk to your spouse about going on to step 4.

4. Come up with a game plan to make the needed changes together. This too will take time and you both have to be willing to work on it.

5. Throughout your life make sure that you continue to move forward with positive changes. We should never stop growing and tying to improve ourselves. And don't worry if this sounds like work, it doesn't have to be all hard work, something as simple as taking on a new hobby can do wonders.

That's how to get your ex wife back after a break up. Like any good advice, it won't work if you don't follow it. Good luck.

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