5 Most Stupid Things You Can Say That Kill Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Back
5 Most Stupid Things You Can Say That Kill Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Back
Every day people break-up, but the good thing is every day people get back together with each other as well. So if you are thinking about to get your ex back right now...There is still hope. But first you have to manage your post-breakup feelings well.
Well, I can tell you some more on how to manage this feelings after your break up, but I guess you must be dying right now to read the "5 most stupid things you can say that kill your chances of getting your ex back".
So read careful here they come:
#1 Most Stupid Thing You Can Say To Get Your Ex Back: "But I love you..."
Yes, of course you do love your ex. But these feelings are not the problem. The feelings they have for you are. Saying that you love them will have one or two consequences for you, depending the situation you are in:
-You make your ex feel realy uncomfotable and he or she wants to avoid the contact with you.
-If you were not expressing your feelings enough in the past, your ex might think that it's a little too late now.
I know, that sometimes you just want to blurt "but I love you" out to your ex, please don't do it.
Suck it up, stay strong, and know that being reserved is the right move at the moment.
#2 Most Stupid Thing You Can Say To Get Your Ex Back: "I can change..."
Everybody can change, they say. But will you do? As many people say it, a few people will do it. Because it is hard to change and most people won't do something that's seems hard.
Yes, I know...You are different. But guess what? Your ex will be onto you right away. As soon you speak these words, your ex will be thinking " Yeah, you probably can, but why did you change when we were together?"
Do you realy want to change? Change first then. And show your ex that you have made this change for yourself. You don't realy have to promote yourself, your ex will notice and this improve your change to getting back together.
#3 Most Stupid Thing You Can Say To Get Your Ex Back: "There will be never be someone that love you as much as I do..."
So what you say is...There will NEVER EVER be someone that love you as I do. Yeah, right. It's something that easily pops out of your mouth in the heat of the moment, but please don't say this.
Never think that your ex won't ever find someone who will love him or her as much as you do. They can and they know it. That's part of the reason that they left you.
#4 Most Stupid Thing You Can Say To Get Your Ex Back: "You've met someone else, haven't you..."
This is so wrong to say. If you ever say this, it might be obvious that your ex lover has not said anything about that they have met somebody else. So why should you confrontate your ex with this?
If your ex has met someone else and trying to put pressure on them in to a discussion about this will only lead to your descent into a pit of jealousy and depressed feelings. Well, you know that nothing good comes of those emotional states.
If your ex hasn't met someone else, then badgering your ex about something that isn't true makes them feel uncomfortable and you are accusing them to be a liar essentially.
You don't want to be back together with somebody that accused that you are a liar. Well, so does your ex lover.
#5 Most Stupid Things You Can Say To Get Your Ex Back: "Please, I'm begging you..."
This is the best and fastest way to kill your chances of getting your ex back. All the respect that your ex had for you will be melting like snow in the sun. And not only that, also your chances of a reconciliation.
You need to be strong and show some strenght. You need your ex lover to respect you more after a break up if you are hoping to reconcile. You need to build on all of the positive feelings your ex lover had in order to set the stage for getting back together with your ex.
Begging is not the way to do it.