5 Surefire Tips On Winning Your Ex Back
Have you just gone through a breakup? Are you working on winning your ex back
? A breakup is a very emotional and painful period in anyone's life. Are you making the same mistakes so many others made by making phone calls,texting,and emailing your ex? Fact is you stand almost no chance of winning your ex back with a hit or miss approach. You need to follow a surefire plan.Agree with the breakup
Something fantastic happens when we agree with someone else no matter what the issue is. Being in agreement creates a bond with the other person whether it is believed or not. Agree with your ex concerning the breakup and you have just removed a burden from on your ex. It will seem like you understand what your ex is going through.
Do not contact
After agreeing to the breakup, both of you will need to calm down and let time do its magic of healing from within. The hurt and emotional scars need to slowly disappear.Remember the self esteem of maybe both of you have taken a devastating blow. Contacting your ex will just bring everything back and prolong the healing process. As much as you want to, don't get in contact with your ex.
Take care of yourself
Although you are hurting and things may appear gloomy, it is crucial that you take care of yourself and look attractive as much as possible. Continue to wear beautiful clothes, check your weight, carry a smile and just have a positive outlook as much as possible. If you wanted a new car and can afford it, get it. If you wanted to start working out at the local gym, start. Do whatever you like to remain attractive.
Taking good care of yourself will help your self esteem and give you a positive outlook on life.
Socialize with family and friends
This is a very important tip. Find time to spend with family and friends.Use the available time to develop stronger relationships with family members and friends. Go out to museums, watch games, and any activity which interest you, your family and friends. Why is this very important? Because it is directly linked to the next tip.
Social Networking
When you spend time with family and friends and have fun, go on your Facebook page, Twitter account or Gather account and comment about it. Don't lie. Just tell other friends what a great time you had with friends or family. Explain a little bit about the fun.If you have some photos, post one or two. This is very powerful if your ex monitors your social networking site. Most often than not, your ex will monitor your page. When your ex reads your comments and see the photos, your ex will realize that you are having a good time to the extent that you are telling everyone, and realize that you have moved on.
The goal of the entire strategy is to make your ex want you back not to force your ex back to you. This strategy will make your ex powerless to resist you. It is so powerful and effective that your ex will think they have made the biggest mistake if their life.
by: Phil Roberts