It is not uncommon for a victim of a stalker to feel sorry for them
, as their life is obviously out of control. You must not weaken and express this, as they will only see it as an open door for them to walk through. You cannot fix them that is the job of an expert professional. What you have to do is look after yourself and be aware that a stalker can be relentless and at times violent. Go on with your life no matter what they throw at you and make sure you have as much support from family, friends and the law as you can. You will find the strength to stand against them, as it is your divine right to a life without fear or trepidation.