Mulling over how to get your ex boyfriend back will do your sanity no good unless
you take some action and find out once and for all if there is light at the end of this relationship tunnel.
Too many people will simply put their lives on hold. Here's an example - wanting someone back and in their minds will do almost anything to achieve their aim. But most do nothing fearing any rejection and that empty feeling of loneliness that follows.
This is not a good idea and while there will be hurt, it will pass and you can move on with your life. You've got to understand that the relationship with your boyfriend could actually be over. The other side of the equation is someone who is in desperation and panic mode after being dumped. Their constant attention can drive a bigger wedge through their chances of a reunion.
We have listed some steps you can follow. Some may not be appropriate to your situation while others will. They can definitely give you an answer one way or the other if their is a chance to get your boyfriend back.
-. Don't pester him. He is needing space right now and only he knows why. By pestering him you are not giving him this space.
- Pestering includes continued phone calls, text messages and emails. It also includes having your friends contact him and try to get information as to why he has ended the relationship and generally fishing for ways to capitalize on. Don't do it.
- By leaving him alone you will give him time to miss you. If you don't you will never know whether he will miss you because you are simply presenting yourself at every opporunity and in fact, probably getting to the point in his thoughts of being somewhat of a pest.
- One of the best courses of action to take is to be upbeat whenever you see him. Being in a merry mood is going to trigger the curiosity factor in him. Is she seeing someone else? Why is she so happy? She should be sad because I dumped her. You get the picture.
- If he asks you out on a date after some time has passed that's great but don't pursue the temptation to jump right back into a relationship. Don't see this as a sign to do so. This is kind of keepings off time and you now "have the carrot" so to speak so avoid acting needy and throwing yourself back at him.
