5 Tips to Getting Back Together After a Break Up

5 Tips to Getting Back Together After a Break Up

If you find yourself in the situation where you have split from your partner but still love them here are 5 tips to getting back together after a break up. Many relationships blossom after a split and go on to be fantastic relationships of love and longevity.

This is certainly going to be a challenge but not impossible and sometimes just finding the right strategy and resolving some issues can make your relationship work better than ever. Of course being apart doesn't put you in the best place to resolve any issues or help you get your feelings known to your other half. So below is 5 tips to getting back together after a break up that will give you the opportunities to resolve and romance.

First of all you need to respect your ex's wishes and be aware that you may have to give it some time before you initiate your plan of action. If your ex wants some space you will have to give them that space. No texting, no contact for a while. There is nothing stopping you making a romantic gesture or letting your ex know that you still care from afar. Just make sure that you don't make any such gesture immediately and give it a bit of time. They can't miss you if you are always there.

Here's what you do after this cooling off period and my 5 tips to getting back together after a break up:

Send flowers or something you know they love but don't have it delivered at work or in a public place. Have it delivered to their home so that they can reflect at their leisure and in their comfort zone. Don't be tempted to send any getting back together' messages or anything like that. Do it more on the basis that you are thinking of them and are there if they need you.

Let them know you are there for them without strings. Many divorced couples end up back together because of some problem where one of the couple needed the others help. They find out how much they depend on each other and get to see the caring side that they forgot existed. So offer to maintain, organise or refurbish anything that will make their life easier depending on your situation and circumstance. This will show your love for them is unconditional.

Moving further down the lines buy them a gift or send a card. This needs to be relative only to them. Preferably something that only you would really know about. If there is something they hate to do like washing the car, send them a card with a voucher for a hand car wash and valet from someone they know and trust YOU!

Make a romantic gesture that doesn't involve you get tickets for the game for him and his mates or for her, theatre, health farm etc. The main thing is that it's to be shared with their mates or family but not you. This shows the pressure is off and they might just ask you.

Give them anything they want from your stuff. If when you split there was any argument over stuff' give in and let them have whatever they wanted that you kept. Stuff is just that Stuff' and not important. We do get bogged down with stuff' these days. All the stuff' in the world won't stop you feeling lonely.

These five things will help you greatly in your quest to getting back together after a break up. Take it slowly and have faith as a great strategy and love can achieve anything.

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