5 Ways On How To Get Your Ex To Fall Back In Love With You
The question of how to get your ex to fall back in love with you can be answered
by something like this...how much are you going to let your pride get in the way?
Pride can be a huge hurdle to overcome in relationship reunions. Quite often a person wants to desperately get back with their ex yet are unwilling to compromise and make their attempts to win back favor unconditional. Thinking you can just slip back into a relationship without making the necessary changes required will only lead you down a path of frustration.
It's more than likely you will counter constant rejection. There were reasons you fell out of favor. Are you willing to go back and pinpoint what they were and improve on them? If you are then the following tips can certainly get you back on track. They are not the be all and end all of solving your problem but they can definitely help you make a necessary breakthrough.
1. Think about when you met. Sit down and write down why he may have been attracted to you. What would have been the traits you had that caught his attention.
2. Once you have a list going through each one and be honest with yourself - is this still you? Have you changed? Has time seen you act differently so much so, you've become someone completely different to the person your ex originally fell in love with?
3. When you are in a desperate frame of mind like you are right now panic can take over your thinking and you want things back the way they were. Remember, it isn't going to happen right away if at all. So resist the urge to get aggressive whenever you speak with them and that includes tempering the desire to raise your voice.
4. One of the things most forget is that when you give an ex time away from you and that means resisting the urge to contact them at every opportunity you are giving them the time they need to miss you. This is so crucial in your overall plans to get your ex to fall in love again.
5. If you did something to cause the split then the apology is vital. Remember, many apologies go wrong because people add one word to them which makes them insincere. The word is "but" and it is a real relationship killer. Make the apology unconditional if you want an ex to fall in love again with you.
