5 worst truth about men
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Author: . nelson" href="http://www.articlesbase.com/authors/vonda-g.-nelson/339726.htm">vonda g. nelsonSo I just happened to see a article regarding the 5 worst things women must know about men!!! Immediately I had to read it, because of course I wanted to be in the know, educate myself on some new info. I immediately scrolled down to see what these 5 worst things could be, the first was....... 1. Men use women for sex, okay this we know..... but do we also know that there is a rare breed of women that do the same. To delve into this a bit further, these type of women have no interest in ever seeing that man again, for some reason emotions don't get involved it is just physical! Males have a tendency to hang around and play whatever mind game they must, to make that female feel "comfortable", in thinking that "she has a chance". This says alot about his (overall) character as well as his mindset. Who in their right mind gets off on playing with someone's mind and emotions. The same breath that it takes to say I'm not ready for a relationship, can be used to "let her down". You're better off hooking up with that special kind of woman....... but that'll never happen, someone's ego will be crushed. The worst truth is no one can use you unless you allow them to--- or you are game. In that case you both are fullfilling your lustful desires and will be satisfied. It's no coincidence as I am writing this hub I get a call from someone I had exchanged number with 4 months ago. I was quite surpised because I remembered leaving him a message in August.... it is now November. After having his number for two weeks I deleted it from my phone, that is the only reason I didnt know who he was because there was no name attached to the number when he called. He proceeded to act as though he was interested in purchasing a vehicle and of course I proceeded to make an appointment for him to meet me the following week. Once he got that out of the way he commenced to try to make a date with me which made me immediately fall back.....the real reason had now surfaced and immediately I was repulsed. I didn't call him on it, I entertained it long enough, dropping hints that I am quite busy focusing on deadlines that must be met. When one angle didnt work he went to the next. All of this to say, I wasn't going to put any energy into calling this person on what he was doing and neither did I have an interest in whatever was his interest. even if it involved taking me to the moon. His "males zones" was quite evident, and whatever his intentions....irrelevant! I'm gathering he was expecting me to do a few cart wheels because he finally decided to call me 3 months later. The 2nd Is when a man says "I'm not ready for a relationship", that this really means "I'm not ready for a relationship with you". Okay that may be so, but please grow a backbone. Waiting around for a males stamp of approval is very ugly. No wonder there are so many woman who are unhappy, who after wasting so many years in a marriage or relationship end up miserable or scorned, due to their high expectations or that which he claims he will do. It's for two mature individuals to meet each other half way, and that can only happen when the desires of each others hearts are the same. It seems as though relationships to some women are like clubs or secret societies. You want to be initiated so bad, you would just about do or accept anything. I couldnt imagine what it would be like to desperately desire a man, that I would wait around hoping he deems me acceptable/worthwhile. Come on ladies he has to want it just as much as you. What can be more passionate and intensely sexy than two people wanting and needing the same thing from each other. Nothing is written in stone or guaranteed forever but starting off on the right foot can make a difference. The 3rd was that men judge you by your physical attributes, of couse they do, there is nothing wrong with that. A man judging you by your physical attributes is no different than a man sizing you up for sex. Now if a man goes further than admiring your "physical attributes" and wants to get to know You......he's a winner. Number 4 was that Men cheat on women they Love, NOT, I don't believe that, what is the point? That sounds more like being in denial than accepting the fact he may not sincerely love you, even though he says he does. Anyone that claims to Love you will not do anything to intentionally harm you and if they know they will, they will be adult enough to either talk about it or deal with in a mature responsible manner. Last but not least...... number 5 Men do not have a natural inclination to get married. It is the woman that desires this. This sounds so crazy and needy Oh god.......FYI not all men are dogs, neither are they crass, some of them do have tact, and marry because they want the same things that a woman would. Not all men marry to be socially accepted, even if they do, they are certain women(that same breed) that fit the bill and role with the punches, play their position as a wife being in the know that it is what it is!. The majority of males may marry a woman to please her but then we can revert back to number 2 regarding a woman waiting to be accepted. No happiness lies there. More than likely she will be miserable because at his convenience he has done her this favor ......his heart does not desire this so she must grin and bear it. Both parties lose in a situation as such. Maybe these are the 5 worst things regarding some males, but in all essence 4 out of 5 is the worst things that some women allow certain males to get away with. I don't think it is fair to throw males and men in the same boat, Males do one thing and Men do the right thing. Vonda G. NelsonAbout the Author: