A Brief Guide on What to Do When Your Heart Screams "I Want My Ex Back!"

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Have you been chanting "I want my ex back" during your waking and sleeping hours

? Can you not think of anything else, but that? If you can't, then you should be having one of the toughest times of your life. Relax. There are things you can do to make things better.

It is a common mistake for men and women to always want to get back with their ex partners too soon after the breakup. Although it may seem to be the most logical thing to do, it isn't.

You see, a breakup is a very emotional event. More often than not, it is extremely painful. To lessen the pain, people have the tendency to want to get back what they lost. This is for the wrong perception that once they get it back, the pain would go away. But it's not really the case.

Relationships get broken because of many reasons. Although some of these reasons may sound mundane to others, they absolutely matter to the people involved. Before going crazy chanting "I want my ex back", what you really ought to do is give yourself a break. Take time to think about what happened and why. Unless you have fully come to terms with it, you can never really have a clear perspective on what you truly want do.
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Getting back with your ex immediately is not the answer. In fact, you may even find yourself in a more dizzying whirl, realizing that you are faced with the same dilemma the second time around.

Now, after letting some time pass and you are back to your normal self, you can start entertaining the thought whether you truly want to be with your ex again. Ask yourself, "Do I want my ex back for real or was I just blinded by my pain?" If you realize that you genuinely want him or her back, then you should start acting on it.

Naturally, the first step to reconciliation is by getting reconnected. Maybe you can send an e-mail or text message casually asking about his or her circumstances. When you get a casual reply, then perhaps you have a good chance of getting to the next step. Anyway, you should not hurry things. Just go on with the same mode of conversation until you two are ready to meet face-to-face again.

Your meeting may be just between you two or with common friends who happen to be attending the same party or occasion. Either way, remember to remain casual and sensitive. Do not open a conversation about your past or current relationship. Listen and observe your ex. What does he or she talk about? What do his or her actions say? Be cautious and sensitive on these matters because they can give you significant hints on where you are probably heading.

When things are going according to your plan, then you may cordially ask whether he or she is willing to give your relationship another try. Sometimes, you may not even have to ask because you may already be in the relationship you've been wanting to be in-- again.

A Brief Guide on What to Do When Your Heart Screams "I Want My Ex Back!"

By: Jacob Turner

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