A Case For Fatherhood At 20: In Defence of Early Fatherhood
A Case For Fatherhood At 20: In Defence of Early Fatherhood
Tell any young male about being a father while in their early twenties, and most are likely to rattle in surprise or crawl back in fear. To the comprehension of most of these young men, life has just commenced for them, and they perceptively ought to enjoy and indulge all pleasures that life can offer before being enjoined to someone else. After long years of restricted studying, this point of view only appears fair in accordance with the natural rules of justice: the caged bird has just been unleashed, and the bird ought not to go to the other cage of marriage almost prematurely. Inasmuch as there may be some truth, this facade does more harm than the converse and contributes immensely to the destruction of the establishing family units while causing the disintegration in the already instituted ones.
Marriage has come to be viewed as a prison, like the four walls of a piteous dirty cell. It is not so. While advocating for early marriages, I submit to you that early marriages will counter the corpus of the growing sexual immorality and sexual discontent among couples. Sexual immorality (including fornication and adultery) will be uprooted before they begin taking base. Being faithful to a single partner, or having lain nude with only one (or two partners at most), will not only cement the dignity reserved to the divinity of our nakedness, but also work productively to wither down the desire to engage in any erotic maneuvers during the free time. From the face of it, it is despondent for the twenty year old to be limited to a single sexual partner for life, but with it comes greater benefits not likely to be considered prima facie.
Apart from burying our concupiscent tendencies, the early marriages will also offset abortions and the growing numbers of STIs; result in the buildup of strong family units; and cause a exponential increase in social tolerance. The prerequisite for the above enlisted successes will however be in the necessity of bearing a child at an early stage. The child will glue the relationship till greater benefits of the union are reaped and will also be instrumental for the cultivation of true love and sincere appreciation within the sacred institute.
The onus of writing this fell on me, with the intent to eradicate the ever increasing drive against being a responsible father at twenty. The logic is un-traditional, but let us excogitate at the life of a typical youth in comparison with a stereotype dad in the same age group.
A father at twenty will be forced to cut down on his luxuries that come with the finding of the first job. After getting to work, money without responsibility will always exorcise all forms of responsibility towards the society around us. The youth will be minded to think of self at this basic level, thereafter establishing the foundation of selfishness. Such men from the tender age will lose all the impulses to live an altruistic or noble life. It may later take a life-transformative episode to bring down this already formed delusion that is purely based on the philosophy of self. A recipe for family catastrophe later on as the man advances in his years; this is so widely contrasted to those who learn to take charge earlier on during this crucial seminal stage and therefore almost automatically become unselfish, noble and altruistic.
The young father will develop a singular focus at this early stage. Although much of these energies will be directed to a single end of having a successful and happy family by default; achieving this end will mean that the father works upon the improvement of self both financially and emotionally. The result will be someone who is composed, focused and whose passions have already been cooled, punctuated to carry on the true meaning of life.
For a young man who is single and probably mingling with the opposite sex, much of his energy will be spent on erotic activities. This will greatly undermine the importance of the youthful energy built within each person, and will result in a much slower rate of personal development as well as personal understanding. For a young father, his erogenous zones will be quickly stripped off their power over the youth, creating in him the conducive environment needed for a successful person and will be evidenced down the lane of years.
As a parting shot, I should not fail to indicate that marriage is such a strong and crucial component of any human being that everything else on the planet revolves around it. Living your life with someone is arguably the hardest thing to do on this little planet. Nevertheless, the architect of marriage designed it in such a way that at this stage, the character of any individual on earth is tested to the limit; shaped and streamlined. Marriage represents in human life a situation where the human emotions are tested to the very extremes. You will have moment of deep anger, as well as moment of your greatest happiness with the same person in a marriage! Is there any other way then that the human character can be perfected other than through this phenomenon component of life?
Ciao.
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