If you feel like things are turning a little sour in your relationship, then finding small ways to surprise your special lady will turn things around gradually. Once she feels the love that you are capable of giving her, whether through chocolates that she loves or that cubic zirconia stud earring set, she will start returning that love back to you and everything will run a little smoother. You have to take care of your relationship like it is a machine that may break down if you neglect it. Many people like to say that "it's not you, it's me," but they don't usually mean it at all. Try this method and see if that phrase disappears from your vocabulary.