A Heart Broken, I Want My Ex Back
A Heart Broken, I Want My Ex Back
A Heart Broken, I Want My Ex BackBeing heart broken like this is killing you and you want your ex back. It is not that you have no male/female friends but you still pine for your ex as that was the best period of your life. You think about your ex a lot and continually try to figure out how to back together. Well, these simple steps should show you the way.
Sometimes things won`t go in your favor, so be prepared for the worst just in case. Being together again is the optimal pursuit, so be ready in case you have to go to plan "B". In case things don't work out according to plan I don`t want you to be shocked.
Keep your options open, just because you are going to attempt getting your ex back in your life don't cut off all your present male/female interests. Keep plan "B" ready to implement in case things don`t work out on your first attempt.
Express some regret, but don`t overdo it because s/he will feel you are being desperate. When arranging to meet your ex it is best to do it casually, again don`t come across as being desperate. A casual meeting is best because of the element of surprise is in your favor. When you meet with your ex simply ask the obvious questions first like how s/he has been and what s/he has been doing, then ease into some good memories the both of you shared when you were together.
This will sort of break the ice. When the discussion veers towards the breakup, be frank and express your deepest regret that it happened. If your ex is holding any residual pain from the breakup it will vanish once you apologize/regret. After a brief conversation with your ex offer to keep in touch and excuse yourself.
Renew the bond, now that the ice has been broken you will have to keep in touch and renew the friendship with your ex. Keep in touch with your ex through emails, text message, or phone calls on occasions. Keep the contact with your ex brief until a time when you both feel comfortable again communicating.
Start meeting with your ex more often as time permits. It could be at formal or informal gatherings. Socializing with your ex will let s/he know that you are sincere. Socializing on occasion will help bond the relationship again. Once you are both comfortable with this, you could start seeing each other on a one to one basis again.
Make your intentions clear and start flirting with your ex ounce again. Give him/her a few hints that you still like them and would not mind being a couple once again. Pay close attention to the response you get. If the response you get is positive than ask if s/he would like to go to a ball game and date for a few weeks before taking take the next step.
Letting your ex know that you are only dating them at this time will gain confidence in your ex that you are serious about the relationship. On one such date when you feel your ex is vulnerable ask them how they would feel about dating again exclusively. Don`t give up if your ex will not commit at this time, it`s just going to take more time to convince your ex that you are sincere with your intentions.
Some people will tell you that you have better chance of sinking a battle ship than getting your ex back, but persistence will prevail if you take the time and patience to go about it the right way.