Sometimes when people want to get their ex back they resort to bad strategies and they aren't successful. You need to follow very simple steps if you want to get your ex back. Here we mention a few of them which is very effective.
First of all you have to stay put. Make sure that you give your ex enough of distance. Don't go crying to him or her. You need to give them space for at least a few weeks.
Then you need to take a long breath and you need to get your emotions together. Keep them under control. If you seem emotionally unstable then it might make the entire situation very uncomfortable for your ex. You need to show that you have enough control over all of your emotions even if you feel like breaking down and crying after you see your ex. This way you will be able to win your ex back. This way people will know that you are not an emotional wreck and you won't need the sympathy from them.
Then next thing you need to do is confront yourself. You need to reason out with yourself and find out why your ex broke up with you. You need to think about what you did wrong. But then don't only think about the negative side, think about the positive aspects as well. Think of your relationship when it started.
If you did something wrong, try and work out your ways. Try to make things right. Just saying that you've chance wont win your ex back. You need to prove it as well. If you had jealousy or insecurity issues try and work on that. Talk about how you've changed like the books which you have read or articles when you meet your ex.
You need to have a clam air about you and you need to be completely prepared when you meet your ex again. Try to make an effort and put your ex at ease. Also meet at someplace where the two of you have never been.