Are You Feeling Hopeless and Need Help Dealing With Adultery?

Are You Feeling Hopeless and Need Help Dealing With Adultery

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Facing adultery can be overwhelming and if it's possible, I'd like to offer you some help. I wish it were in person where we could share a cup of cocoa and a warm smile but if this article gives you at least a little guidance or adultery help you are seeking, I'd be delighted.

The Real Problem With Adultery

To help you deal with the adultery it's important to look at the cheating for what it really is. It's not just the physical aspect of the affair that is detested. It's the broken trust and sacredness of the relationship. It's the memories that have been suddenly tainted with lies and doubt. It's a difficult struggle because in your mind you begin to replay history and wonder whether adultery was present at the time.

If there was a missed family gathering or all the times your partner was working late you wonder if he or she was engaged in adulterous behavior. If he or she lied about this what other secrets are hidden, you might wonder. These are all valid concerns and I'm sure you have these and no doubt many others.

How To Help Begin Recovering From Adultery

Ok, now that the cat is out of the bag, it's necessary to begin dealing with the adultery. It's shocking and hard to believe that after all you have invested in your relationship, this is what you get in return. So now what do you do?

First, you make an agreement with the most important person impacted by the adultery and that is You! I know you probably think I'm crazy but I'm not. Get a pen and a piece of paper and write down this agreement, review it on a daily basis and stick to it.

1. You will not let the adultery ruin the rest of your life.

2. The adultery is a small chapter in your life and will not dictate how the story ends.

3. Only 1 to 2 hours per day (maximum) will be used to deal with the adultery. The other 22 hours will be dedicated to joyful, peaceful and positive thoughts and activities.

4. You will maintain your composure and control what happens in your relationship moving forward.

Next, I would suggest you let your adulterous partner know where things stand and that's no where. Don't make any rash decisions about your relationship. It's too early to end it or forgive and move forward. Let your partner know the pain and anger you feel. Express your outrage and disappointment. Explain that you will take time to figure out if and how you can continue your relationship.

Obviously, I left out an important step to help deal with adultery because it's a no-brainer, but I'll mention it now. Your cheating partner should have already ended the affair. If he or she can't seem to end the affair, I know a good brain surgeon you can get to crack his or her skull open (just kidding). But of course there is no moving forward unless the adultery is over.

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