Asia Chat: The Hard Side Of Online Dating

Heres a little secret that those of the female persuasion keep from us guys: Women

, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. Are you surprised? Its true and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages, too. Thats true for internet dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but were talking about internet dating here so back to the subject at hand.

With the explosion of online dating sites has come a virtual smorgasbord of choices. There are free sites I dont recommend those but if money is a real concern, they are better than nothing. There are the large paid sites with many and varied features like chat, IM and even matching using profiles. There are the less expensive paid sites with few features. There are special interest sites for almost any thing you can think of...outdoor enthusiasts, couch potatoes, religious, non-religious, gays, lesbians like I said almost anything you can think of.

Once you have joined an online dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, its a womans world still. Its traditional for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. Thats why your profile and picture are so important.

Remember confident and interesting and that does not translate to cocky and self-centered. Its important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of thingsnot JUST sports. Another thing about that all-important profile please dont start it with, Im the guy your mama warned you about.

You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, I could be the man of your dreams. The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of that so dont insult her intelligence. Remember exude confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking foror she will find you.

Wont it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.

by: Justin Wright

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