Aspects That You Should Take In Consideration Before Dating Your Officemate

Many times, the friendly relationship changes

, in most cases, it always fail. There are many risks that make it very hard to maintain. But many do not know it before they start the relationship. So if you're a very busy man, but also, spend all your time in office, and dates with a colleague, you should look at all the potential benefits and disasters, which may occur specially in your career.

In our days increasingly people pick to start a relationship with a co-worker. The reason why this happens is that plenty of young professional men & females are spending all their time at the office, so they have less time to go out & meet new people. So, it is natural to seek friendship & companionship from colleagues.

There are some aspects that you ought to take in consideration:

-If you didn't ask her for a date already, & don't know how to do it, you may organize a group outing or event & invite her; but if they refuse, you need to think at something else; recommend something casual like dinner or film.

-You must think about what happens if your relationship doesn't work; will you be able to handle the situation to see your co-worker every day, to interact her every day? It may be hard to re-establish a professional demeanor with a person.

-Dating a co-worker can affect your work, in the event you are unable to differentiate between work & pleasure; so agree to not flirt at work, you need to set up relationship rules for the workplace.

-You have someone to confide in concerning your work problems; they could be a great help; but, there's more negatives aspects about this kinds of relationships.

-A relationship like this can generate issues in your promotion; the boss may even see that you are more preoccupied by your partner than your work.

-Never date with a subordinate because you may be accused for favoritism by the others employers; the others co-workers will exclude you now from definite conversations, won't speak about anymore with you about privacy.

-If you start a relationship with a co-worker it is better to keep it secret; it will need plenty of discretion, energy & work to keep your office romance between you two; so don't tell your colleagues about your romance because you're both work will be definitely affected.

-As a benefit, you get to have lunch together; so from a usual uninteresting office lunch, you can have part of one filled with flirting.

As you see there are some benefits but most of them are downsides. I recommend you to think well in the event you need to get in to a relationship that may affect your career & in the event you are prepared to do this. As I said, it may be hard to make it work. But, it remains at your choice what you are going to do.

by: Michael SeoVida Francis

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