Attraction and Being the Woman He Can't Live Without

The first step in attracting a man is being aware of the power of the visual

. That doesn't mean you have to have a perfect figure, or wear the latest styles. But paying attention to the little things can make a big difference. You can be comfortable without being a slob.

For example, think "feminine" instead of "feminist" when it comes to your appearance. Flowing dresses that show your curves, the right color choices, and jewelry will catch his eye. Long hair is an advantage. But if your hair is short, style it to look feminine or "cute". Bright colors are good, but red may be too overpowering.

Smiling will make you more approachableespecially if you're smiling at him. Be more of a listener than a talkernot only with the man you're interested in, but with others as well. He will notice.

As you move forward in the relationship, you will learn more about him. The best way to be the woman he can't live without is to make him feel like the man you can't live without.

For example, ask his opinion about "man things." As an independent single woman, you've probably taken your car in for an oil change. It doesn't hurt to ask him whether he thinks it's better to go to the dealer or the Fastlube up the street.

Don't ask his opinion about "woman things." He probably doesn't care which shoes you wear as long as you are ready on time. Never ask him if what you're wearing makes you look fat. Most men can recognize that as a no-win question.

Almost everyone brings some baggage from past relationships, and eventually you each learn about the other's "hot buttons". If you know he hates the answer "I don't care" to the question "where do you want to go for dinner?" but you don't want to make the final decision, offer him options, such as "I'd really like Mexican from that little caf, but Italian would be okay."

As the relationship becomes serious it may be helpful to determine "three rules" that would cover your worst irritants. For example, her rules might be: 1. Never drink the last cold Pepsi; 2. Never use my good sewing scissors for anything but fabric or thread; and 3. If you drive my car, put the seat back where I had it. His rules might be: 1. Never make me late for a meeting or event by not getting ready on time; 2. Don't nag me about household chores; and 3. If you use my tools, put them away when you're done. The "three rules" will almost always be a variation on the theme "respect me."

Attraction and Being the Woman He Can't Live Without

By: Bob Grant

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