Be Her Best Lover - Tips To Give Orgasm To Your Woman
If you are one of the men wanting to give your woman the best things in bed
, you can start finding ways to give her orgasm and be her best lover. Indeed, you can learn a lot about it from the internet, from books and from sex therapists.To be her best lover, you have to start understanding what can pleasure women in bed and that you have to understand what she wants when it comes to lovemaking. Giving your woman orgasm is probably the best thing that you can give her during lovemaking, and being able to bring your woman to the height of intense pleasure is one thing that can indeed make you her best lover.
Although many women are not able to reach orgasm, you can however do something about it. Here are some tips to help you in making your woman reach orgasm.
- Longer foreplays can mean greater chances to make your woman reach orgasm. The sight of sexy men does not easily turn on women. The power of your touch and your words can be your tools to set her into the mood of lovemaking. Touching does not have to be touching those sensitive parts of a woman's body. You can whisper into her ear, you can caress her face, give her genuine compliments, run your fingers through her hair, or cuddle her - these may appear simple but they can be a big help in building the sexual drive of a woman.
- Make a woman feel comfortable. One thing that hinders women to reach orgasm is that, they have lots of insecurities and fears in their mind that they tend to have reservations when it comes to making love. Women most often do not initiate sex, and often do not want to be the first one to say what they want in terms of what pleasures them. Although these rely much on the woman herself, you can be her best lover if you can help her feel comfortable and make her tell you what she really wants.
- Learn the 'pleasure points' of a woman's body. If you want to make a woman feel special by giving her orgasm, you have to learn where and how to touch or stimulate. You have to understand that most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, whether manually, orally or with the men's genitals.
- Find the Grafenberg Spot or the famous 'G-spot'. It is said that women can either achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation or stimulation of the G-spot. Also find some love making positions that will pleasure her more.
- Go ahead and ask her. If you are having a hard time in deciphering what she really wants, go ahead and ask her sweetly. She must be dying to tell you what she wants. Learn the art of talking dirty - this will also help you discover some things that will pleasure your woman. At the same time, it is also a good start to helping your woman reach orgasm.
Although orgasm in women can be dependent on her state of mind during lovemaking, it can be very helpful if you can also find ways to help her attain that intense pleasure, and if you can do this, for sure you can be her best lover.
by: Carolyn Anderson