Being Single - Curse or a Blessing ???
Being Single - Curse or a Blessing ???
Being Single - Curse or a Blessing ???
Well lets try the most obvious and the most commonly used method . Brood ,Sulk, Wait , and pounce on the first man who enters your radar . Yeah yeah justify that actionby calling it taking an oppurtunity, moving on , receiving the awaited prize whatever you may want to label it ,but the signal you just gave to that poor man is not " I'm single and available " but " I was single and desperate"
As rude as the above paragraph seems , that will only lead you to hold on oh -so -tightly to the man , not see his personality or who he is ,be absolutely blindedby your fantasy until he chokes and dies ( ok leave's) or you realize he's so not the one . Gee , what a waste of time , could have earned a new friend by that time. Im not emphasizing the reader's to besitting at home and watching tv and lo behold your prince charming is at your doorstep after parking his horse in your garage . No ! The simple point im tryng to prove here is dont worry about something thats not already happened , specially when you have no idea how or when it will happen . In simple words
LET IT BE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your single , ITS FINE (unless your 38 years old and above, now that's beyond fine ) , Enjoy the single life , experience the variety of things coming your way (in this case types of men ) .Get to know men from the most amazing gentlemen to a few jackasses (jackasses helps you get stronger ). Single people out their has a larger chance than the taken one's to experiment and experiencetheir own love lives . You have the chance to look out , choose , and well replace and make changes too. Not that the people who are already in relationships cant do it , but hey single people have zero drama while replacing and editing prince charming candidates.
So you see , love is anyways going to come , sooner or later , directly or hidden beneath a series of confusing twists. Somehow I will guarantee that no one will die unloved!! So why worry ,
There's nothing more sexier to a man , than a women who loves herself and is completely comfortableand confident about herself. So isnt that what we should be concentrating on , improving ourselves , or even strengthening our key qualities. Everyone needs a "MYSELF" time. Ever wonder why guys get all serious around the ages of 24 and 25 ? They have their "MYSELF" time , they experiment a little , get other factors in life stable and definitely worries way less when compared to us women. Ok so even if you have a high flying career and all other aspects in your life is stable , then Do something you've always wanted to do. Do something new , or follow a long lost dream of figure skating or travelling or Yes even reading the entire series of Twilight or Harry potter.
Learn to make yourself happy all by yourself, that way your happy even before you have your lovelife , and you know how to be happy evenif your love life comes burning down.
Imagine a guy or a girl desperataly coming after you , clinging on to you with all her might just because he or she doesnt want to be alone . Is that the way you wish to be loved ? Is that the way you want to love ? If we expect strong willed, independant confident men , shouldnt men also expect such qualities from us ? Why turn this blessing into a curse at a moment of utmost confusion ?
God's wish , destiny , karma , what ever it is , not worth worrying and anticipating something which we have no control of , and taking control in order to get it close to you will only drag you down . Dont believe me ? try it , see how many people will be running away from you !!!
Bella's theory never works , because not everyone in this world are 107 year old vampires who will live for eternity . I recommendGinnys method , relax , date around , enjoy and live in the moment and end up with the Hero !
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