Are chubby girls doomed to a life of loneliness? Can they find that special someone, Mr. Right, their soul mate, just like the thin girls do? The answer is YES. But it will take work. Are you ready to find success in the dating world? We have some great advice for chubby girls.
The fact is that you can get a great guy; a gorgeous guy, too. That is because male psychology tells us that a great personality is what men look for in a woman. So work on your personality. Do these things:
Have self respect.
Do not throw yourself at him. Do not call him just to hear his voice. Do not drive by his work or his house so that you can accidentally, so to speak, bump into him. Do not do his laundry and be his errand girl. Those things will not attract men who will fall in love with you. They will only attract someone who is selfish and wants to use you.
Play hard to get.
This is a real attraction for men. This is how it works. Let us say that you are at a party where he is also a guest. You are sitting across the room from him. You are looking around and you catch his eye. Look at him. Smile at him, maybe nodding your head at him. Then continue looking around the room. This can make a guy fall in love with you and make him commit to you because it is combining the showing of personal attention with playing hard to get.
Chubby girls and thin girls alike need to have their own life.
Good dating advice says that if you never go anywhere; you never do anything; you never read anything, and so on, you will be very boring. That will not make him fall in love with you.
A better idea is to have a hobby. Take classes. Go places. Do different things. Expand your circle of friends. These things will add dimension to your personality and make you very interesting.
Try these things. They will work for you. This is how chubby girls can win in the dating world.