Can Me and My Ex Get Back Together – Here's What to Do
Unfortunately, if you are reading this article then chances are you have recently suffered an unwanted breakup
. First off, let me say sorry sis, sorry bro. Relationships can be sooo rewarding, but breakups can leave you all broke up inside and I'm sorry about your pain. I guess if didn't really love her or if you didn't really care about him it wouldn't matter. But, in that you opened up this article, you must be at the stage where you are asking yourself, "Can me and my ex get back together"? The answer to that question is a qualified yes, but it depends on a number of factors.If you truly want to get back together with your ex, you have to do a bit of soul searching. You must be totally honest with yourself. You have to decide if you and your ex get back together it will truly make you fulfill you as a person, and you won't wind up down the same road that caused the breakup in the first place. It's always easy after a breakup to only think of the good times. It's important that you try to be completely objective and think of both the good and bad times.
In reality, there are a few relationships that are unworthy of saving. If you and your ex spent more time fighting than you did doing something good and fun, then perhaps you should consider moving on. For instance, if your partner was abusive, it probably wasn't a healthy relationship. If they were mentally unstable, you probably are better off without them. If the relationship overall was a good one, and they weren't abusive, and they were of sound mind, the following should help answer the question "Can me and my ex get back together?"
First off, do not relentlessly push and prod your ex. Don't pester or badger them. Whether it's by phone, email, text message, or stalking them, don't keep trying to get a hold of them. They will see this as a sign of desperation and could actually push them further away from you.
Second, don't try to argue, beg, or plead your way back to your ex. Let the old stuff go. Even if it was your fault don't beat yourself up about it. It's easy when you are all alone for your mind to manifest all sorts of "wrongs" that you may have done. Even when your ex broke up with you, they may have given you reasons why. Now, you probably wish you had never done those things. The past is the past. This is the present. Concentrate on what is going on now.
If you back off, give them some time, and live your life, you'll be doing yourself a big favor in more ways than one. You'll probably become more desirable to your ex, because you're allowing them to think about you and miss you. You'll also be helping yourself to live a happier, more fulfilling life too.
So, if you recently suffered from an unwanted breakup and you are asking yourself "Can me and my ex get back together" that is what to do.
Can Me and My Ex Get Back Together Here's What to Do
By: Eric Coggins