Can My Heart Handle Giving My Cheating Ex Wife Another Shot?

She cheated on you and she is asking you for another chance

. It's a little bit confusing this time. You want to give her a second try but you are skeptical if she will be true to her word or not. Her assurance may not be enough and so you are looking into her words - "Will she be faithful this time?"

Muster the Courage

Few husbands are more than willing to give their cheating ex wives a second chance. The risk is too high and so they would leave it all up to a big 'No'. They are wary on their wives genuineness thus; they opt to be better off with their wives than be cheated on again.

You cannot tell yourself to stop loving her. I know you do even if it has been stained by her cheating. Don't make a fool out of yourself by not taking an ounce of courage to giving her a second chance.

Don't fight the urge to offering your heart out. If it's worth the risk then do so. Open yourself to the vulnerability of being hurt again. Anyway it all boils down to positivism that history doesn't repeat always.

Whatever you choose, there is always a level of risk. This has nothing to do about being man enough to a cheating wife. This is about choosing to accept her and resolving hidden issues long forgotten.

Is She Worth the Risk?

Before you let her come back in the picture, give it sometime to think. Think about the trust issues, jealousy problems, or even your future life with her. If she's worth the risk then think (hard). Consider the risk factors. It's worth risking everything if she is the one.

Tough question, right? They say there is no right or wrong answer. Either way is okay. But remember this is not just about being okay. This is about you, the trust issues in the future, and your family. Whether or not you will give her a second chance or put him out of the picture, everything is your choice. You are the holding the keys.

You obviously love her. At least you loved her very deeply at some point in time. You asked her to marry you after all. It's not likely that your love has ended over time but it may have evolved as you've learned more about one another.

Before accepting risk and actually forgiving her, make sure you have done these things: 1)Forgive yourself first and 2)Be mentally and spiritually healthy

This may be the most difficult decision you make in your life and it isn't one you should take lightly. No matter what kind of risk taker or thrill seeker you may be it is not always best to give her a second chance. On the other hand, sometimes the only way to go is to give your cheating ex wife and your marriage that all important second chance.

by: T Dub Jackson.

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