Can't Miss Tips For Getting Your Woman In The Mood More Often
Can't Miss Tips For Getting Your Woman In The Mood More Often
By Otto Collins
Do you frequently find yourself wishing that your woman was in the mood for sex more than she usually is?
Would you like to have all the sex you can handle with your woman?
If you're like many men, your answer to both of these questions is a resounding, "YES!"
There are any number of reasons why your partner isn't in the mood for lovemaking as often as you'd like her to be.
It could be that you two have young children or babies and she's the primary caretaker for them. As you also probably know, caring for children (especially when they're young) is energy-draining work. This can certainly affect her willingness to have sex with you as often as you want.
It might be that you and your woman don't have young children to care for but there are other reasons why she is too frequently overly tired or simply uninterested in sex.
Take some time to honestly explore the possible reasons why your partner might pull away from you.
Yes, it could very well be that she simply has a different libido than you have. But, it's also possible that unresolved disagreements, resentments or other disconnecting habits have driven a wedge between you and your woman and this is a big reason why she's not in the mood as often as you'd like her to be.
If you discover some unresolved issue between you two, be willing to own your share in whatever happened (or is happening) and work with her to find a solution so that you both can let it go.
Use your words.
Another way to help get your woman in the mood for sex more often is to use your words. Here's what I mean...
Pay attention to what you say to her. Convey how special she is to you and how much you adore her with your words. You can get creative with this and use your loving, playful, flirty and sexual words in text messages, e-mails, notes and face-to-face conversations.
You don't have to be a poet or overly romantic with this. Just touch in with your true feelings for your partner and then communicate those feelings to her.
If you are completely at a loss for how to speak what you feel in your heart, look for quotes online or in books or songs that resonate the most with you. Explain to her that this is how you feel.
Another important way to use your words is to make sure you are always speaking honestly and openly. Don't lie or withhold the truth about what you think or what you've been doing. Lying is a poor way to try to avoid a fight and it can quickly extinguish any sexual passion that your woman might be feeling for you.
Touch her.
The way (and how frequently) you touch your woman can make all the difference in your sex life with her. I'm not just talking about caressing her sensually when you are ready to jump into bed together!
What I'm talking about is touching her more often-- and NOT just in sexual ways.
Hold her hand when you two are walking together through a mall or a park. Gently stroke her arm or her cheek and kiss the back of her neck.
Sometimes you'll probably want to touch her in affectionate and non-sexual ways and, other times, you'll probably want to touch her in more sexual ways and on more intimate body parts.
Don't just touch her to attempt to manipulate her or "get sex" from her. Do it because it's a way to let her know you love her and find her irresistible.
In order for touch to make a positive difference and help get her in the mood for sex, it's essential that you watch and listen to your woman. Pay attention to how she responds when you touch her in various ways and do more of what seems to make her happy.
Be there (really there) for her.
As I said above, sometimes your woman might be just too exhausted or overwhelmed for sex. If this is the case, you could consider stepping up in more and different ways so that you can really be there for her.
Be realistic about what you will actually do and what you have time for, but offer to take responsibility for more home and child care tasks. Be aware if she's going through difficult times at work or with family and friends and let her know you're there with a listening ear and whatever form of support she most needs.
Above all, be sure that you follow through and actually do what you say you're going to do for her.
When you two are talking-- even if it's about casual topics-- really be present and engaged with the conversation. Set aside time each and every day so that you two can connect in with one another.
This might not be the most romantic or sensual-sounding tip, but it's absolutely essential. Try it and see what happens in your love relationship or marriage (and in the bedroom too) as a result.
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