Have you been trying to capture the heart of that great guy? Do you dream about him every night and fantasize the outcome of an encounter with him? Are you afraid to make any kind of move because you don't think he'd be interested in a girl like you? Don't underestimate yourself and don't box a guy into a stereotype. You could very well be just the kind of girl he's looking for. Here's how to find out if you are.
It's funny how so many women assume that men are only interested in one particular type of woman. I had a friend who once spotted a guy and simply thought he was out of her league. He was handsome and had plenty of women trying to get his attention.
Imagine her surprise when he actually came up and wanted to get to know her.
Put a great look together and have confidence in the woman you are. You'll never win a guy over if your hiding in your home or hiding under ill fitting clothes, so get out there and be seen.
Then when you do run into him, try to avoid thinking of a grand romantic novel. This is real life and if you just take it one small step at a time, you have a greater chance of getting into a full blown relationship. Just talk casually to him and be pleasant and amusing.
If he strikes up a conversation, keep it light and fun and don't hint that you're looking for a boyfriend. Other than minimal interest in him, don't be blatantly obvious in showing how cute you think he is.
Guys have a funny way of being flattered by the interest a girl will show in him, then quickly becoming irritated if she shows too much interest. And this is why you need to keep your desperate desire to have him under wraps.
Love takes its sweet time to make its way into a guy's heart, so don't be discouraged if your romance with him doesn't grow as you'd thought. Be patient and you'll capture his heart.