Common Mistakes People Make When They Try To Get Their Ex Back

Most people after breaking up or dumped of a relationship realize the importance of their ex partner

. And tries very hard to get his / her ex back in their life again. But when they're trying that they make many mistakes out of desperation and permanently lose their chance of getting their ex back.

The most common mistake that people make in order to get back their ex is to beg and plead before him / her. Actually by doing this, you show your ex partner the weakness and your desire very cheaply. This method is very much unattractive and unpleasant for both of you. Moreover, it present yourself in front of your ex partner as a guilty one and trying to manipulate things to get him / her back.

The second mistake that people often make is through keeping continuous communication with him / her. Constant calling or text messaging or e-mailing may make your ex partner more annoyed and reduce your chance of getting him / her back.

The first two mistakes talked about here are fairly common and you can find excuses for that but the third one that follows is a more vital mistake. It is known as the giver's mistake. In this you constantly and willingly give your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend every single thing they want like money, gifts, wishing cards, notes, books, time etc and even emotional support. This mistake is deadly and can devastate your chance of getting your ex back completely.

It is because the help you are providing through constant giving make your ex thinks that even after the break up he / she doesn't lose you and thus don't feel your emotions rather take advantage out of this. Your ex dumped you so are not obliged to you. And since you are constantly giving him / her supports, they don't really find any reason to get back to you again. As without being back, they are getting your love that you show through helping him / her constantly so they think that you are always there for him / her and why to turn back to you again?

So if you really want to make your ex to fall for you again then make your self scarce. The rarer you appear in front of him / her, more will be your worth in his or her eyes.

by: Peter Hammer

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