Communication? He Won't Even Talk To Me.

I love my husband and want to share things with him; but he turns cold and refuses to listen or talk

. Why?"

If you do not like to talk but still want to save your marriage consider the following. (If you are the talker, please feel free to give this to your loved one. No, don't throw it at him/her... hand it over nicely.)

* Maybe you are angry at someone; or are just angry by nature and that's your comfort zone... * Or you grew up in a home where they didn't talk. * Or perhaps your mate is an overbearing personality and you feel you can't get your ideas across... * Or maybe you just aren't wired to talk... * Or you always end up being put down in a discussion so don't want to risk it anymore * Or you are feeling sorry for yourself * Or you wanted to marry someone else way back when and it didn't happen so you resent the one you are married to now... * Or you don't want to accept the responsibility of supplying another's needs * Or you enjoy aggravating or hurting others (you have a mean streak) * Or you are punishing your spouse for something * Or you don't want anyone invading your private world. You are selfish

Ummmmmmmm - welllllllll - let me say this as nicely as I know how for the first 7 listed above - SO WHAT! And for the last 4 - GROW UP. This is not all about you. If you want to have a loving, giving, caring relationship, if you want to save your marriage, then do what you don't want don't need don't care about and start talking. You have no excuse.

And just for the record you will love the results. There is nothing better than communication with someone else who loves you, unless you're arguing. If you find that there are too many fights, then get our books. We tell you how to have the right kind of argument.

We know of far too many marriages that couples felt weren't worth saving because one person in the relationship wouldn't talk or didn't know how to talk. That's why so much of our material at Love Relationship Headquarters, explains in more detail why some people won't or can't talk, why some people talk waaaaay too much, and why couples don't understand one another.

You can save your marriage. It is far easier than you think. Go to http://www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com now and find out how.

Margaret Hardisty International Best Selling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com

by: Dr. Vance Hardisty.

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