Confront Your Spouse About The Affair - Here's a Fail Proof 3 Step Guide to Come Out On Top

Confront Your Spouse About The Affair - Here's a Fail Proof 3 Step Guide to Come Out On Top

Catching an affair is one thing, but how do you confront your partner about their infidelity? Below you'll find 3 rules that you should always follow before saying a word to your spouse.

Alright, so whether it's true or not, why don't we pretend for a moment that you've already caught your wife or husband cheating. You've gotten cold hard evidence of an affair, but you don't know what to do with it. Well, luckily for you, that's why I'm here.

Many people don't realize that confrontation, especially when it comes to affairs, is NOT a simple matter. There are so many things that can go wrong when you have two very emotional people going head to head with one another. That being said, there are a few rules that you should know before you even think about talking to your spouse.

Following these 3 rules should help you get what you want from your spouse:

#1. Set a Goal.

Before you explode on your spouse with evidence of an affair, it's prudent to decide what exactly you want out of the confrontation, first. For example, do you want to stay together or separate? Do you want them out of the house for a little while? Do you want them to apologize (seems like a stupid question, but it's not)?

When I confronted my wife, I knew that I wanted her to apologize, but I also knew that I didn't want her to leave me, so those were both goals that I set before confronting her with the evidence that I'd gathered.

So what do you want for yourself? It's important that you answer that question before moving on.

#2. What Could Go Wrong?

Listen up! This is the most important part of this article!

It is vital that you take some time to anticipate the way your spouse will react to your confrontation. When people are involved in an affair, you'll often find that they're extra emotional and volatile, which means that almost anything could happen.

Most people either haven't thought about the way their spouse will react, or they only have 1 or 2 ideas about it.

Folks, this is just plain stupid.

Take 15 minutes and sit down and really think about your husband or wife. Think about how you think they'll react.

Got it in your head? Now, what's the exact opposite of that? Because chances are, that's what your spouse will do when you tell them you know they're cheating. Of course, I don't mean that literally, but my point is that you should have a plan for more than just 1 or 2 things that could happen. Think about the way that you'll react, and how you can still get what you want out of the confrontation.

#3. Do You Want to Stay Together?

You should have already decided this when you were setting goals, but what I mean here is that you should decide whether or not you want to stay together, and stick to it.

You won't be clear minded in the midst of an argument with your spouse, so if you don't want to stay together, stick to your guns. At least get them out of the house for a couple days.

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