Grieving over a certain loss is a natural reaction, however the basic human instinct of survival is much stronger than this reaction. Coping with grief is easy and difficult both at the same time depending on the will of the person. Remember, grieving is normal but for a certain period of time only; gradually you need to pull yourself out of it.
The most important factor that can help you in coping with grief is to share. Speak out; share your grief and sorrows with a family member or friend. You might feel uncomfortable by letting them in, but rather than avoiding them you should accept the assistance they offer, believe it or not it is very helpful.
Learn to face your feelings. Avoiding your grief is not the solution since the memory will reawaken somehow. Express your grief in positive or a creative way. Make a grief scrapbook and start writing in it about the respective grief. If you have lost someone you can even write letters to them or stick their photos in the journal as a token for their love.
If you follow a religious tradition do not hesitate to embrace the comfort it provides by praying, visit a church or even meditating. Having your faith reawaken is a big help in coping with grief.
Lastly, start planning ahead. Think of things you always wanted to do and getting involved in them would make you happy. If you can afford to, plan a holiday and start a new beginning on returning home. However, you can only succeed in coping with grief if most importantly you have your own support.
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