Cure For A Sexless Relationship

Cure For A Sexless Relationship

Cure For A Sexless Relationship

Do you find yourself in a long term relationship or have been in a marriage for a long time and sex is not the highlight of your relationship? Do you find yourself having to do sex and not really wanting too? This is a common problem for many adults and we are going to try and address some of these issues and give some helpful advice to hopefully put you back in the mood again and develop a whole new sex life with your partner.

Sex is so very important to a relationship and with out sex or romance there are many problems that can arise from having a sexless relationship. You need to find out if it is you personally that does not have a sex drive or if it is both parties in the relationship. The problem could be due to the lack of testosterone in the body, which a simple blood test can help find that answer. If you have a problem with the lack of testosterone then a physician can prescribe a simple cream or gel that will boost the testosterone levels in the body and hopefully boost your libido. If the problem is that you just don't have the desire, then here are a few simple tips that could possibly help. Keep an open mind when reading these, some people may find some of these tips to be crude or taboo but in reality they are nothing more than tools to help put a spark back into your sex life.

Tips for spicing up the sex mood

Make a sex date Now some will disagree with this because they feel that sex needs to be spontaneous, and I will agree with this to a degree. But if you have a family like most people do now days with juggling two jobs, kid's school, sports, and other family activities you almost have to take out a calendar and pencil in time for the two of you to have quiet time together and romance each other. Sometimes it can be sexually stimulating to have a set time and date to look forward to a romantic time together.

Watch an erotic video or read erotic literature Men get turned on by erotic scenes while women are more likely to get turned on by a steamy book or magazine. Do you ever find yourself getting turned on by a sexy hard R movie? If so pick up a couple and lay in bed naked and watch one of these movies, before you know it the two of you will be messing up the sheets of your own bed. Watching and talking about sex can be a real stimulator. It is time to stop being crude and open your mind to other ideas.

Ask your partner to go shopping together for sex toys If the two of you are into sex toys than this is really no problem, but if you both are virgin too sex toys them this is a huge step out of your comfort zone. But maybe this is what your relationship needs; too get out of the comfort zone in order to bring some spark back into the bedroom. Erotic sex toys are fun and the excitement about going to a local adult store can really be a turn on especially if the two of you go shopping together. For many women just the talk about a silver bullet vibrator is all it takes to get her juices flowing, and for the man an anal vibrator or a butt plug is a real turn on if he has ever tried anal sex before. Go on a shopping spree for some sex toys and get out of that comfort zone, you will be glad you did.

A little sweet and dirty talk A powerful seduction technique is two combine some sweet messages along with some dirty talk. Men and women both love to have sweet nothings texted or spoke to them, this is nice but to really take it up a notch is too mix in some dirty sex talk. Don't overdue it but with the right combination it can be a really hot turn on.

Dress for success You have heard of this for the work place but have you thought about it for the bed room. This goes for both men and women. Men cannot deny that they are extremely visual when it comes to beauty, so women if you want to turn your man on then start dressing to make you look HOT for him. Greet your man at the door in a thong, or a skimpy bikini and I am sure he will pick you up and ravage you. Now speaking to the men here, don't come to bed and expect hot sex when you show up with body smells, or bad breath or gas problems. Men can be crude a lot of times and they do not think of these issues. But it is an extreme turn off to the woman if her man stinks or has bad breath. Men clean up your act.

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