Dating Advice For Single Men - What Not To Do
When it comes to dating advice for single men
, it seems like there are a HUGE amount of people that claim to be experts in this category. Some are legit and others are nothing more than marketers who just happen to want to make money in this market. So, some of the advice that you get is genuine and some of it tends to be fluff that sounds good, but will not really boost your success with women in any way.Here are a few dating tips for men, examples of what NOT to do:
1. Don't turn into a girlie man. What I mean by this is that there are a lot of guys out there that try to become more successful with women by paying more attention to their clothes and their shoes than anything else. One of the reasons why I have been so successful with women is that I DON'T look like one of these guys. Come on fellas, imagine letting a girl know that you take more time to get ready than she does. It's not exactly going to be a turn on.
2. Try to become her soul mate. This is where a lot of passive men get it all wrong with women. They try to instantly become her everything. Not only do most women find this suffocating and annoying, it's really not genuine at all. You have to let things run its course and VERY rarely do two people meet and assume that they are soul mates. So, when you try and act like this on the first or second date, you are really coming across as being needy or even fake.
3. Adopt routines and gimmicks that go against your morals. Now, there are some guys that have the mentality that they will do anything to try and get a girl. When you act like this, not only are you being false with yourself, you are also really coming across as desperate. Think about it, if you really had choice and selection with women, then you wouldn't have to try and do anything to get a girl.
by: Chris Tyler