Dating After Cheating – How to Start Over With Your Wife
Dating After Cheating How to Start Over With Your Wife
Dating after cheating can be intimidating, exciting, and unbelievably frightening all at the same time. You want so much to get it right and you know the risk if you get things wrong. My goodness it feels like you're going back to the beginning and trying to woo your wife all over again.
In some ways, that is exactly what you are doing when you are starting over with your wife when it comes to dating after cheating. It's a small price to pay to save your marriage though it definitely feels pretty big at the time.
If only there was something you can do to make things easier during this trying time for your marriage, right?
Well guess what? In some ways it is possible to make things easier but you will still feel that mixture of pleasure and pain at the prospect of dating your wife all over again.
The pain lies in the fact that there is a lot of history between the two of you. This will lead to a few awkward moments as you each try to sort out where the future will take you as well as what it has in store for your marriage.
The pain also comes from knowing that there is a new tension between you and that you, to some degree, are the cause of that tension. You never wanted to be the cause of the pain your wife is feeling. You would have never set out to intentionally hurt her in this way. Now that you have you feel a little bit powerless to undo the damage that has been done.
That is why dating after cheating is so important. It gives you the chance to start over with your wife from the beginning. You have the rare opportunity to go back in time and win her heart all over again. You can work to undo the damage of years and celebrate many "firsts" a second time around. You get the chance to skip some of the painful points in your relationship and do things "right" this time around.
But how do you start over with your wife when it comes to dating after cheating?
You start by asking for that all important first date and then you proceed to make it one that will outshine the last first date you and your wife shared. Make this the standard for your new marriage and let your wife know by your amazing "first" date that this time around your marriage is going to be even better than before.
