Dating - How To Ask For A First Date

Everyone at some stage in their life has been there when they have had to ask someone for a first date

. Looking back you will think what all the fuss was about but when you are doing it for the first time it is one of the most nerve-wrecking situations that you can experience. The first thing you need to do is relax, there is nothing to worry about, it isn't the end of the world. At the end of the day the worse thing they can say is no. However, there are a few ways of improving your chances of getting a yes. Here they are a few dating tips:

1) Timing is critical on the first date as it can either make or break you. Never ask for a first date on the weekend. Friday and Saturday is a no no. There is too much expectation that is why mid week is the best. Try a Wednesday or even better a Thursday as everyone is in a good mood because the weekend is about to start.

2) There is a right way and a wrong way to ask for the first date. The best thing to be is direct. If you ask them a vague question you're going to get a vague answer and that is something you want to avoid. Also, avoid questions that allows your potential date to say no for example, "Hi I was thinking if you would, eh, eh, like to go out with me sometime?" If you get a direct no then you're a goner as there is no way back in. Even if you get a yes you still have to complete the negotiation by asking them again for a specific time and place.

3) Before asking your first date prepare in advance and be clear about what you want to say. When you have it clear in your mind about what you want to say you will come across as more relaxed and confident which is a big attractor factor.

4) When you propose the question make sure you give your potential date a few options in terms of the day, time and dating venue. In this way you are giving them choices, it also makes you come across as conscientious and that you have thought this through.

5) It always pays not to come across as too keen. So, when you ask for a date don't ask them that you want to see them right away or the next day. They will run a mile. Chill out and bide your time. Set the date at least a week in advance. If you cannot wait that long and the other person is keen then, what the heck, go for it.

6) Never ask for a date when you're in a bad mood, or when you have lost your job, or when you need a shoulder to cry on(that is what your mother is for). Be in a positive frame of mind, as you will come across as more relaxed, more fun and more attractive to the opposite sex.

7) Just be yourself and say "I would like to get to know you better, would you be interested in spending some time together?"

by: Frank Dee

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