Dating Problems Can Be Solved - Let An Expert In Dating Help You

Are you having trouble with dating, I mean are you having trouble getting good dates

? I will deal with that in another article. What I mean is are you having problems getting dates or making them great? There are a lot of people on the internet who will give you lots of advice about dating, but I am here to put it to you straight. Dating is a numbers game. Confidence is built through failures. If you want to date hotties, become one.

In my past I had a friend who would just walk up to any woman. He had one pick up line and it was terrible. He would just walk up and say "Would you like to have sex with me?" Ninety nine times out of a hundred the woman said no, but he didn't care. All he cared about was the one who said yes. Now I am not suggesting you do that. That is a terrible way to be. My point is that even with no skill at all this man got what he wanted through numbers. Stop caring about the ones who got away, get a bigger net and keep on fishing.

Confidence is built through our failures. Well this is true only if you look at its opposite. You see when we try and fail and try and fail we don't feel very confident. Yet, it is amazing what takes place when we get just a single success? Our confidence goes way up. No matter what the subject, all it takes is a few good successes and we can become confident in it. Think of the failures as steps towards the successes. They are training. So in effect we train and build our confidence in our failures.

There is no doubt that men and women are visual creatures. So if you want to date a hottie, become one. Now I understand that some of us will never be like Brad Pitt. That isn't what I am saying. What I am saying is make an effort to improve yourself. Get a haircut, have a female friend go shopping with you for some new clothes, if you are overweight join a gym. You would be surprised how far a little effort goes towards making you much more appealing to the opposite sex.

Every one of us, if we are honest could use somne lessons in dating. Think of dating as a hobby. Work to improve on it just as you would any other hobby. Remember it is a numbers game. Keep in mind that you will build up confidence as you play the game. Do not ever become satisfied with yourself, that is the first step to missed opportunities. Always seek to improve on yourself.

by: Jason C Maxwell

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