Dating Tips For Men - Why You Want To Learn More Than Just How To Get A Woman's Phone Number

One of the first things that men get attached to when they learn more about dating

and how to be more successful with women, is the idea of being able to get as many phone numbers as possible. While this might be fun in the beginning, especially if this is a new experience for you, you don't want to get hung up on just learning how to get a woman's phone number. In all truth, it's really not that hard at all to pull a woman's phone number.

What you do AFTER you get that phone number is a much different story.

Many people both men and women, have kind of gotten the impression that that have to learn certain rules of dating. One of which is the old standard that you should wait a couple of days before calling a woman. But, sticking to a rigid set of rules is not exactly going to make you shine in the eyes of a woman.

One of the most attractive and magnetic traits that a man can have, is to be spontaneous.

How spontaneous is it to go with the old standby rule of waiting a certain amount of days to call her?

Not very spontaneous at all.

So, what should you do instead?

One of the little keys that I picked up and it works very well, is to play by the situation instead of a standard set of rules. So, if I meet a woman on a Saturday and in the conversation with her I find out she is not doing anything on Sunday and neither am I, I see no problem at all with giving her a call on Sunday.

What does this do?

For one, most women have heard of the two or three days wait between giving out the number and getting the call. So, you are going to catch her a bit off guard and seem a lot more natural than a guy that is waiting a certain number of days.

Another thing is that if you have established enough of a connection, built up some sexual tension, done some flirting with her, the next day is great to extend that and keep the attraction escalating.

The point is, while there are some standards that get passed around, they are not always effective.

When you get a phone number from a woman, then you have to be able to know what to do with it. And it should never come across as though you were specifically waiting a certain number of days.

Copyright (c) 2009 C Tyler

by: C Tyler

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