Dating Tips to Ensure a Second Date
Going on a first date and looking for dating tips to make a second date likely
? Give these great dating tips a try and see how much your odds improve for yourself. Be natural and genuine. Don't put on airs and don't pretend to like something you don't. If you hope to have a second date you might be tempted to like everything about the first date. This isn't always the way to go. Your date is trying to learn what you like, dislike, and who you are deep down inside. If you don't give your date honest and sincere data to work with two bad things could happen. First he or she could fall for someone who doesn't exist and you'll be left trying to reveal the real you later in the relationship. Second, your date could decide that the person you are pretending to be isn't the right one for him or her. On the downside it could be that the real you would have been a perfect match. Be real. Bottom line. Don't push for major moves. No one wants to date an octopus and most of us are trying to avoid like crazy going too far too fast. There's a new trend in dating these days. It's called restraint. At least, that's the general rule if you're looking to build relationships. Be your best. Going back to the first dating tip, don't pretend to be something you aren't or better than you are. We all have strengths and weaknesses. Play up your strengths. Accentuate your good features and camouflage those you'd like to cover up but remember that there are a few flaws beneath the surface. Make sure your date has fun. How do you do this? You accomplish this goal by keeping things light and having fun yourself. There's nothing quite like being around someone that is having a good time to make you have a great time. Be fun and your date is likely to have fun by accident. It really is amazing how that works out. Ask for a second date. Of all the dating tips you'll get the direct approach is often one of the most effective. If you ask for a second date (and you've followed the other tips above), you should have no trouble getting a positive answer. There's a great deal of psychology involved but the general rule of thumb is that asking for what you want and believing you'll get it is more than half the battle in getting what you want.Dating Tips to Ensure a Second Date
By: TW Jackson