Decision making - A point to the next level!
Decision making - A point to the next level!
Do I really need God in this? Many a time such a question raises up in our mind when it comes to making decision in choosing a life partner, especially when one is been grossly infatuated, or to say in a relative : to fall in love.We stand to classify and make judgments based on this theme of the holly woods - what a real woman or man is like. These opinions are basically an obsession of a creative mind working behind the scene, feeding us with the information he or she thinks the world should look like, recreating our world by his or her inspired imagination. We live in the world of the media today, we can not do without it. Turn on your TV; tune on your radio, flip through the pages of a magazine; peruse through the new paper; search on the internet, we are bombarded with information that are real, as well, sometimes are fabricated. So if the trueness of the information is scaled on the balance, and, or our decisions are based on these, can we be hundred percent guaranteed that acting on the information would lead us to a destined direction? Think about it! In the advent of this there has been more unstable marriages. More contracted marriages. Many homes has been swept off by today's phenomenon. Why?
Let's take a look t this. In the cool of an evening, barely five months after Jane and Dan got wedded, the atmosphere was colored blue as they both fell in a sofa caressing and muttering romantic words. For minutes, they were lost to their world (environment). In a slight jerk, Dan voiced sonorously, can I have a minute? He reluctantly took a magazine, whispered," Jane, I will love to request this of you. Before now, I always travel in imagination of what a beautiful world I want to live, but it's incomplete without this." Pointing to the model on the front page. Can you make yourself look like this? "Jane turned pale. " I am dark skin, she is fair; I am plum, she is thin; I have black hair, she is a blond, how do I make up the differences? Moreover she is in the best state of her self as the office. "Dan yelled, dermatologist can help you do that ." The romantic momentum slopped, the once brightened moment gloom ed, they both separated to different rooms. This is just one of the numerous effects ways challenges in representing the gender through media".
Pause a while, before we continue, let's explain in detail the meaning of this two keywords - "Gender" and "Media". Sometimes it is hard to understand what is meant by the term "gender" as opinions varies in societies, and how it differs from the closely related term "sex". "Sex" refers to the biological and physiological characteristics that define men and women. The various sexual organs of the body that makes them function distinctively. What a man can do a woman can not do, what a woman can do a man can not do. "Gender" refers to the socially constructs roles, behaviors, and activities and attributes that a society considers as appropriate for men and women. To put it in another way, "Male" and "Female" are sex categories while "Masculine" and "Feminine" are gender categories. Aspect of sex may or vary substantially between different human societies, while this may greatly vary when it comes to gender.
The media has been a medium of forming and framing opinions, norms, fads, beliefs, consciously or unconsciously for the race. It reaches far and to every nook and cranny of human society. Either in your private home or in the office. The human mind is highly porous and eventually susceptible to consistent bombarding information. Our thought, our minds and desires going further to give in detail the height, size, smile, gorgeousness; or a pretty lady. We have all buy into the media and concepts of the media, thereby forming our opinion on this "their- idea" which in far-fetched from the reality. And my initiation remains not to be biased on this issue. The media is a two-edged sword, it has its pros and cons," break the rules in get hurt. Then you ask, am i beautiful? Am i handsome? Before these questions are answered, what truly is beauty? How do we measure to find a true beauty? What does a real man or woman looks for in a partner? What are the attractive points makes a man tied to the skirt of a woman? What makes a man create a lasting impression in a woman? These and many more question when answered can help us navigate in the right direction getting a life partner. Firstly, God doesn't do anything without a blueprint, He modeled you after Himself, and he considers you beautiful - "..and God considered his work and all were good." Want to know the values that makes one a real woman or man? I would implore you to this book of the bible Proverbs 31:10-31.
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