Discover How Get Your Ex Back The Easy Way
Discover How Get Your Ex Back The Easy Way
It's a fact of life: most of us will, at one point or another, break up with somebody we love.
Break ups are sort of strange.
Whereas other things we do in life become easier the more we do them, that's not the case with breaking up. No matter how many times you've done it in the past, each break up is at least as difficult as any previous ones you've experienced. Another fact of life is that after a break up people will want to get their ex back.
The majority of relationships follow a pattern.
Everything is great when you first meet. Then you get comfortable with each other, making some adjustments to get along. Then those things you didn't notice at first start to become amplified, leading to arguments.
The saying, "familiarity breeds contempt" applies in such cases.
It takes effort to accept each other for who you are. That's how to make a relationship work. But, even if you are doing your best, your partner may want to break up.
Here are a few things you can do to win back your ex if the worst should happen.
Apologize. This is a difficult step for some people. Either they don't think they did anything wrong, or they don't know what they specifically did that was wrong. Before apologizing you need to know what you did, and why it was wrong. Also, be careful that your sincere apology doesn't lead to an argument. Be honest, be humble.
Talk. As soon as your ex is ready to discuss things, you should start talking. Do not force this on your ex, that won't work. Again, be careful that the things you talk about don't end up in an argument. Stay alert as to how the discussion is going and change course if you have to.
Remain calm and stick to the facts. Do not, under any circumstances, start blaming your ex for anything. That's a sure way to stay broken up. You are simply talking things over like to calm, cool and collected adults.
Give them some space. Sure, the first thing you want to do is see them again, to plead your case, to talk things over; but they also need to be receptive to seeing you again. People deal with things at a different rate, and your ex may not be as far along as you are. this isn't a bad thing. It just means they need some more space and time to sort things out before they are ready to talk to you. Give them that space. You will know when the time is right by how willing they are to talk to you.
As the song says, "breaking up is hard to do". It isn't easy. And the happier you were together, the harder it will be to be apart. Once you know the right way to approach things, the better your odds will be to get your ex back and to be happier than ever.
If you want some help in getting this right .. in making up in a way that will not intimdate the one you love in any way .. you really should go and meet Travis. He is just a really great guy who really wants to help people.. and he does... even though he can get a bit long winded.
You can meet him here ... and once you do you will know what I refer to above.
You have at least two lives at stake here. If your love is real ... it is worth doing all you can to preserve it .. don't you think?
Good luck. I am rooting for you... I really am.