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You may not like what I'm going to say to you.
It may taste bad going down - like the yucky cough syrup your mom or dad or grandparent gave you when you were sick...you hated the taste,
hated having it forced down your throat...but then you felt a LOT better afterward - didn't you?
Like those who love you and care about you, I'm not here to pump you up - or to make you feel good.
I am however, here to tell you the TRUTH...and the truth will set you FREE!
And what is the truth? Simply this: Most people like being stuck. ARE YOU ONE OF THESE PEOPLE???
Numerous individuals just like you who are looking for the right support after their divorce have consulted with me about how to create the
life they REALLY want - "How can I get from where I am to where I want to be?": More love, more passion, more peace, more fun & more happiness. ... So if you want to take save your marriage & then take it to the next level, or several levels...
WHY ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOURSELF (consciously or unconsciously)???
So many people I've consulted with and coached clearly want a different (better) experience in their life. Yet when the "rubber meets the road"
they're unwilling to actually take any ACTION. They hold back; they play games.
One guy I know of is seeing a counselor And as is spending a lot of time, money, and energy blaming others & circumstances. He's sense of
responsibility ends at gaining awareness; and quickly stops when it comes time to take action. This happens ALL the time. This guy is
paying a LOT of money, and investing a TON of time...so why isn't he CHOOSING to be real & honest? Because...
NO ONE LIKES TAKING RESPONSIBILITY and NO ONE LIKES BEING HELD.
(even me, however, I do both because I want the success
which both actions produce...by the way, can I share one of the secrets of the MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE? It's actually really simple -
yet not many people carry it out. Truly successful people simply DO the things they DON'T want to do, versus unsuccessful people who
don't do what they don't want to do. Simple right?)
This guy, like most people, is no fool. He realizes (consciously or unconsciously) once he's honest with his therapist about the TRUE
challenges he's facing, he'll be held accountable and his feet will be held to the fire. But you have to ask yourself...
IF YOU TRULY WANT TO BE DIFFERENT IN YOUR LIFE & GET THE RESULTS YOU REALLY WANT, WOULDN'T YOU SIMPLY CHOOSE TO BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR
REAL CHALLENGES???
Stay tuned for my next article, as I reveal to you the HIDDEN and UNDERLYING reason most people who want to recover from their divorce
sabotage themselves, keeping themselves from experiencing the lasting results they really want...
P.S.: Was this article helpful? Let me know what you thought or if you have any other questions at brian@provendivorcesupport.com
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By: Tars Thark
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