Do I Seem Like a Girl That Guys Would Like to Date?
Do I Seem Like a Girl That Guys Would Like to Date
?If you are asking yourself, or others, this question then you may be a little insecure about your man attracting abilities or even in your self esteem.
Let's try this experiment together that got me started in moving past my insecurities and instead viewing myself for the amazing woman I am.
Go and look in the mirror and really look at yourself. Don't just focus on the annoying part you always focus on when you look in the mirror but instead look at you the way others would see you.
Instead of focusing on your 'physical imperfections' look past those right now and see all the great things about you that make you who you are. Do you have an amazing smile or sexy eyes? Maybe you have cute dimples or awesome legs. See yourself as a whole package and not just as a thigh or arm or stomach.
Do you understand what I'm saying? You are not just the arm or thigh or stomach that you constantly focus on...you are also a couple of legs, a butt, a face, two boobs and everything else that makes up you. Other people do not just see what you look at when you view yourself in a mirror. They see the whole package.
Now keep looking in the mirror and really see your personality. Yes looks are part of the package but so is your personality. A crappy personality can make even the most attractive person look ugly while a great personality can make the least attractive person beautiful.
Look at the way you talk and they way you laugh. Do you throw your head back when you laugh or do you make a cute face when you are thinking about something serious? That's what other people are seeing in you and that's what makes you unique from every other girl and a great catch for any guy to have.
Anytime you feel down about yourself try going to the mirror and really looking at you and feeling good about who you are and not just the insecure you.