Do Not Derail Your Chances Of Getting Back Together With Your Ex

"How can I get back together with my ex?" If this is a question that your have about

an ex girlfriend, ex boyfriend or former spouse, it is important to remember that in addition to following the right steps to win him or her back, you also need to avoid common mistakes that will derail your chances of getting back together with your ex. Here are some common mistakes to avoid.

1. Don't Make Promises That You Can't Keep

You obviously broke up for some reason. When you know the reason, you may decide to promise your ex the world hoping that this will get your ex back. You may even be convincing enough that he or she may decide to give you another chance only to lose them again and suffer heartbreak again when they realize that you made empty promises.

If you see that there was something that you did wrong that led to the breakup, you may want to make a change to become a better girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife. For the change to become permanent, you must want to do it for yourself and not for another person.

2. No Games

Some that try to get back together with their ex may think that making them jealous will put them a step closer to getting back together with an ex. They may think that showing up where they know their ex is going to be such as a particular club or bar and flirting outrageously with someone in the club or bar or to make it worse, flirting with the ex's friends will win the ex back only to find that this strategy does not work and will only derail efforts to win an ex back.

You are not a child so leave all games for children. Trying to hurt someone hoping that this will win him or her back shows a level of immaturity and a lack of respect for your ex as well as a lack of respect for yourself. In many cases, your ex will know what you are trying to do and will be disgusted with you and your behavior will only validate their decision in breaking up with you.

3. No Stalking

This is self explanatory. No one likes to feel pressured about anything including getting back together with an ex. Do not pester your ex with emails, texts, calls, driving by his or her place, etc. Leave the crazy for the crazy. You do not want to push him or her further away by not living him or her alone.

by: Lydia Stevens

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