Do Second Chance Relationships Ever Really Last?

Do Second Chance Relationships Ever Really Last

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You hear a lot about second chances every day. You want that second chance with your ex so bad you can taste it. Unfortunately, there's this little doubting Thomas in the back of your mind telling you "these things never really last." So your big question, the thing your enquiring mind wants to know more than anything else is "do second chance relationships ever really last?" You're in luck because the answer, without a doubt, is a resounding yes!

But the real question you need to be asking if you're interested in a second chance relationship with your ex is "what do I need to do to make my second chance relationship last?" That's a much better question for many reasons.

First, it assumes success in that you will have your second chance relationship.

Second, it's proactive and means you're taking action to make your relationship work even before the relationship is a done deal.

Third, it means you're looking forward to a bright future and not dwelling on the past.

So what can you do to make your second chance relationship really last?

1) Start planning for the future together. Be sure to include your partner not only in your plans but also in the planning process. You need to make sure you're both on board and on the same page when planning for your future. It will make you both feel welcome, wanted, and respected and will also help ensure that you both are getting what you need from the relationship.

2) Learn to ask for the things you need in a relationship. Everyone has wants and needs. Sometimes we have huge expectations that are unrealized. The problem is we hold the person we want to meet those expectations responsible for failing to do so even if that person doesn't even know these expectations exist. It's time to learn to ask what for what you need. That means you're much more likely to get it. This one step will save your relationship a thousand times over if you use it well.

3) Be free when handing out praise and stingy when doling out criticism. This alone will make you a happier person. More importantly, it will make the people around you happier too. It's amazing how this works but it's true. People like being around positive people. Try spreading happiness around and see how much better your outlook on the world becomes.

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