The possibility of giving your wife a second chance might be a Big Fat Zero
. Your feelings now might flag a big time No but you will probably have second thoughts about it when feelings of resentment subside. You see, life after cheating is more complex than you think.
A man can feel emasculated upon the discovery of a cheating wife. He might have second thoughts on giving her a second chance, but as you mull over this things think about changing perspective. Why not focus on giving marriage a second chance rather than focusing on her. If you look closer inside you, you can still feel the fire of the relationship burning deep inside you. The show is over now so, try to close the curtain. A second chance means you have to want it yourself and that you want to work things out.
No Blaming
Pointing a finger at someone is very easy to do but what we don't know is that there are other people hurt by the cheating issue. It might be hard to believe that cheating wives get hurt on their cheating, but this is true.
A lot of women, who cheated and betrayed the trust of their spouses, pay greatly for breaking their vows. The fact is that she didn't really go out to haunt for someone just to cheat or she may not be a thrill seeker to break the bond of your marriage seriously.
Blame does no one any good. It certainly won't save your marriage. Does your cheating wife deserve a second chance? If you really love her and want to make the marriage work then you're going to have to figure out how to look beyond her cheating and see the woman you love - not your cheating wife.
Defy Infidelity - Muster Up the Courage
The fact remains that you still love her. But it takes courage for men to hold their heart out again. They are emotional beings but they are champions when it comes to controlling their emotions. Stopping your heart from loving her takes a long time and is not possible at this moment. Convincing yourself to go on without her is just making a fool out of yourself.
They can take the risk of making a fool out of themselves just to hide their true emotions. Persuading themselves from getting back to the woman they love is something that they don't want to entertain.