Effective Interpersonal Communication With NLP Representational Systems

Effective Interpersonal Communication With NLP Representational Systems

There are many ways to define "thoughts", and one of them is how we use our senses internally.

We use our senses outwardly to perceive the world, and inwardly to represent experience to ourselves. When recalling experiences, such as a time you went to the beach, what appears in your mind first? Maybe a picture of the beach would appear. Perhaps you hear the sounds of the waves and children playing, or the feeling of how relaxed you were just sitting by the sea.

When you ask a group of students to describe their form teacher, you could get a variety of answers. One student might recall the hairstyle and dressing first, followed by the teacher's voice, and how he or she feels about the teacher's lessons. Another might first recall that the teacher has a very deep and powerful voice, followed by how the teacher always makes the class feel interesting, and lastly, how the teacher looks.

This method of taking in and storing information in our minds, through our five senses (Seeing, hearing, feeling, taste and smell) is known as Representational Systems in Neuro Linguistic Programming. Having different preferred representational systems is also one reason why we encounter difficulties in getting our messages across to others sometimes.

If you are a visual person whose dominant sense is seeing, you will likely speak in a manner that include many pictures and visual words. A kinesthetic person on the other hand, will speak with many feeling words. Also, they will find it easier to relate to feeling words as compared to visual words.

So if you want to build rapport with others and get them to understand you easily, take responsibility for the way you communicate and use words that are suitable for their preferred representational systems.

The author is a trainer who specialises in Communication, Sales and Customer Service. Trained in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Enneagram Personality Profiling, he hopes to share his knowledge on Successful Interpersonal Communication Skills with people around him.

He is also a co-founder of LoveStory.sg - aDating and Matchmaking Service that primarily focuses onSingles Dating in Singapore. Though it's mainly catered for residents of Singapore, you can still visit the website and access the LoveStory.sg Blog for ideas on dating tips and communication skills.

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